Great comment. Just wish it was non gender specific.
Well… if you say it like that…
Love subgirlygirls comment
Nice of you to care so much about your mistress….
A lucky few of us will have easy lives. Many will find life tough. However what we all will have to do deal with at some point in our lives, is bereavement. My Mistress is going through this at the moment and she is suffering. It’s incredible that though we are all so separate, as long as we are capable of love, we will all, at some point, experience this pain. It’s a common bond we all share and we all deal with it differently. This is what love is. It’s laying yourself bare. Allowing others in and once they’re in….they will hurt you. They will hurt you even if that’s the last thing they want. They will hurt you by leaving. It’s an unavoidable and necessary part of life.
My friends and my Beloved, never let the loss of a loved one harden your heart. Never wish you hadn’t allowed yourself to love. Sometimes I despair when I watch TV and see the misery all around us. But without great sadness there can be no great joy. Without great suffering there can be no value in freedom (I reckon many of us BDSM’ers already understand this). I believe this is the human triumph. No matter how evilly we, as a race behave, no matter what depredations humanity can and does inflict on ourselves on a terrifyingly regular basis, love cannot be destroyed. We know this precisely because death comes to us all. No-one is immune. We live, we die. It’s the cycle of life, but in between, WE LOVE. We are here for such a brief time and “Our little lives are rounded in a sleep”. NEVER be afraid to love, to feel, to care. Yes it will hurt at times but what is that compared to the great eternity. Let your candle shine brightly in the darkness.
So when someone close departs. Don’t be afraid to howl your pain. That tearing feeling inside is the measure of your love. And if you instead feel nothing. Don’t berate yourself. It’s your mind numbing you to that pain and protecting you. When we grieve, we grieve our own way and that’s how it should be. But never be afraid to love and love and love again. It’s what we are here for and we’re not here long. Don’t be afraid of the Winter my friends. The Winter will always be followed by the Spring.
Love you Mistress xxxx